Been there. Tried that. Time, marriage, and maturity have definitely shifted my priorities. But the most radically paradigm-shifting change is this big fat realization. I am only interested in a relationship with someone as committed to the spiritual path as I am. Rather, we are two spirits in human bodies communing to help each other wake up to the magnificence of our true Divine nature and the Oneness of all of life, two spirits committed to serving the revolution of love in our own unique ways, with the relationship as a vehicle for helping us fulfill our role in this world-healing revolution. I envision a relationship where two hearts are so raw, loving, courageous, transparent, and wide open that there is almost no boundary between the two beings, not because of co-dependence and a lack of individual wholeness, but because of a pure recognition of the Oneness that exists between all of us. The Godself loving the Godself, spiraling up with a high vibration of spiritual autonomy but also healthy interdependence, passionately drawn together with the intention of waking up together and enjoying and experiencing this human life in all the ways humans can commune, serve, and celebrate. A relationship committed to the spiritual path includes doing the deep and sometimes confronting work that accompanies waking up together.
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